Introverts are mostly described as shy, reserved, slightly geeky and socially awkward people. But it's not their fault because often times movies and TV shows portray introverts this way. The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Princess Cyd, The Way Way Back, The Breakfast Club and Little Miss Sunshine are some of the movies in which introverts are portrayed as awkwardly shy people, often ok to be Average looking and typically unpopular.
But you don't have to be an extrovert to be popular, it's also possible for an introvert to become popular. It's just a matter of mastering a few key characteristics.
Here are the 5 characteristics that will help you become popular even if you're an introvert -
1. Direct Praise Towards Others
There is no such thing as being too humble but sometimes low self-esteem can mask itself as humility and it makes it impossible for someone to sit in pride at their accomplishments. As CS Lewis said, "True humility is not thinking less of yourself, it's thinking of yourself less". The most charismatic thing to do if you would rather not be in the limelight for praise isn't to duck compliments entirely or to clam up when you are in that position, instead give a heartfelt thank you. Show the complementary that you appreciate their words and then redirect praise towards others.
2. A Zen Like Presence
It means speaking in quiet and calming tones. Sometimes this more calm type will find it hard to hold the attention of a high energy group. The good news is that you can sometimes use this to your advantage without changing your style and you can do that by making the content of what you are saying mismatched that laid back style and you do this for humorous effect. So, deliver a dramatic Punchline in a really calm tone.
3. Use Enthusiastic Hand Gestures
When you are interested in a topic you are speaking about using hand gestures more often. One particular motion is the little hand rub. Do a little hand rub before going into the story. This gives the impression that whatever you are going to say next is going to be really important and juicy. It's a nice little trick to get people to listen to your stories if you don't have that booming extroverted nature.
4. Embrace Your Type
Embrace that you're an introverted person. There is one thing most introverts should make a conscious effort to do, particularly in an interview, is to hold good eye contact with the person they’re speaking to.
Introverts, by their nature, tend to stare off into the distance or look down when they speak. However, if you can make a conscious effort to hold eye contact with the person you’re in a conversation with while you’re speaking to them, then that person will feel you’re more engaged in the conversation and feel like they connected with you more afterwards.
5. Be Generous
Be generous of yourself and your time. Most introverts tend to be scared to engage too much with others. However, by being giving of yourself and your time, people get to see the real you and at the same time appreciate you for what you’re doing, at the same time.
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